Untangled : guiding teenage girls through the seven transitions into adulthood / Lisa Damour, Ph. D.
Dr. Damour draws on decades of experience and the latest research to reveal the seven distinct -- and absolutely normal -- developmental transitions that turn girls into grown-ups, including Parting with Childhood, Contending with Adult Authority, Entering the Romantic World, and Caring for Herself....
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Language: | English |
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New York :
Ballantine Books,
[2016]
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Edition: | First edition. |
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Physical Description: | xix, 326 pages ; 22 cm |
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Contents:
- Parting with childhood. The cold shoulder
- Allergic to questions
- Surprisingly mean
- The swimming pool
- Totally competent, except for when she's not
- Blooming, reluctantly
- Smoke without fire
- Parting with childhood: when to worry. The female Peter Pan ; Rushing into adulthood
- Joining a new tribe. The pull of the popular
- Tribal warfare
- Frenemies
- If your tribe jumped off a bridge ...
- When tribes need elders
- Social (media) skills
- Joining a new tribe: when to worry. Social isolation ; Being bullied ; Being a bully
- Harnessing emotions. You: the emotional dumping ground
- I'm upset, now you're upset
- Befriending distress
- Catalytic reactions
- Coping by posting
- How to become an accidental helicopter parent
- Harnessing emotions: when to worry. Recognizing adolescent mood and anxiety disorders ; Self-destructive coping
- Contending with adult authority. Seeing behind the curtain
- The end of "Because I said so"
- Framing danger
- Rupture and repair
- Crazy spots
- Adults with faults
- Holding the line
- Contending with adult authority: when to worry. Too good to be true ; Constantly contending ; Adults contending with each other
- Planning for the future. Impulses, meet the Internet
- The road to the future: who drives?
- Making the grade
- Tense about tests
- Planning for next week
- Dealing with disappointment
- Planning for the future: when to worry. All plan and no play ; No plan in sight
- Entering the romantic world. A dream deferred
- A match made in a marketing meeting
- Offering some perspective
- The inner compass
- Dating for credit
- Being gay: the slur and the reality
- Entering the romantic world: when to worry. The tributaries and the lake ; April-June romances
- Caring for herself. Nodding without listening
- Girls, food, and weight
- Sleep vs. technology
- Getting real about drinking
- Straight talk about drugs
- Sex and its risks
- Caring for herself: when to worry. Eating disorders ; Not ready to launch.